Taipei: The temple guide

If you ever have been to Taiwan, you will know that religion is a big part of the culture. You cannot walk within Taipei without stumbling on one of its numerous places of cult. The vibrant capital of Taiwan wouldn't be itself without its magnificents and mysterious temples. During my last trip on the Ilha Formosa, I made a point on visiting every temple that was recommended. Here are the top 5 you shouldn't miss when visiting Taipei.

1.Longshan temple
Probably the most popular temple on the island. This Buddhist place of worship was first built in 1738, but was destroyed in numerous earthquakes and fires. It was last rebuilt in 1945 after an air raid bombed the whole area. Neither less, the detailed structure and notable artwork make up for its troubled past. Taiwanese come here every day to pray (especially on Sunday), so it might be a bit crowded, but still breathtaking.
2.Confucius Temple
Built in 1879 in honour of the famous teacher, the Confucius temple in an architectural treasure. With its fine artwork and striking ceremonies, you will be taken back in time while visiting the magnificent holy place. Don't forget to explore all of the courtyards, since they all are unique.
What first started as a wooden shrine in 1742, quickly became one of Taipei's most active temple.
3.Baoan Temple
Dedicated to Baosheng Dadi, the folk religion god of medecine, this place of cult welcomes tons of Taiwanese every day to pray for health and fortune. Don't be afraid of the craved dragons and numerous images of deities, since they are here to protect the community.
4.Matyr's Shrine
Right next to the Grand Hotel, the Martyr's shrine stands in the middle on the mountain. It was built in 1969 in honour of the fallen heroes of the Republic of China's war. The temple is remarkable on its own, but the changing of the guards steals the show every hour (9am-4pm).
5.Xingtian Temple
One of the most underrated place of cult in the whole city must be the Xingtian temple. Located in Zhongshan district, it is devoted to Guan Yu, the patron of businessmen. First, its amazing traditional red structure stands out in the middle of the skyscrapers and second, it is the first temple in all of Taiwan to ban the burning of incense in an effort to reduce air pollution. Pretty amazing, right!? But the best part most be the interior court, where monks takes care of the ceremonies and meticulously clean the space.
I wish I had more time to explore all of Taipei's temples, since there is an hidden treasure waiting at every street corner. But that would have taken me years. Fortunately, those five temples are extraordinary on their own and shouldn't be missed on your next visit to Taipei. I hope you have amazing adventures on your next trip to Taipei.


Enjoy,
The little traveller's boots
Xox

How to travel with your significant other

Travelling solo (as a girl or a boy) can sometimes be pretty scary, though liberating. I have done it before and I still love it. But, I also love exploring new places along side my boyfriend. There is nothing to be ashamed of if you prefer travelling with your loved one. Sharing your adventures with your other half can also be amazing. It builds ones character, makes your relationship stronger, and helps you discover places you would never though existed before. Here are a few tips I have learned along the way.

1. Compromise
Whether it is at home or abroad, compromising is part of any healthy relationship. During your planning and the travel, you both should take decisions together and have equals fun. For example, if one wants to visit a certain place and the other don't, make sure the other person gets to visit another place he or she really wanted to see. Compromise can also be associated with money. Don't get yourselves in debt because you want to travel in luxury. If one really wants to go to a 5-star hotel, how about the next day you go to a hostel or do camping?
2. Trust
Even though this might seem a bit weird since you are travelling together, trust is an important thing. One of you might be a bit more of an adventurer while the other might not like going off the beaten path. Trusting one and another abilities and feelings will save you from embarrassing situations and even from a few fights.
3. Listen
We all are different, and each individuals in a relationship is no exception. That is the reason why you should listen to each other opinion and needs. Starting by planning the trip in itself, you should pick a destination both of you are excited to go to. You also should set a budget based on the lower income, so that money doesn't come as an issue. Also, for the ladies travelling with their boyfriend, don't forget about the food. If one says he or she needs something (food, bathroom, rest, etc.) listen to him/her.
4. Talk
As much as I would like to tell you the contrary; there will be conflicts between both of you. It is unfortunately part of every couple's trips. Travelling can become quite stressful and, thus, bring the worst of ourselves. But you can make it less uncomfortable by talking it out. Having a discussion or simply speaking out when something is not to your liking can spare you a few headaches. A new culture can also be the opportunity to talk about future projects or taboo subjects. Make sure both opinions have been said for you to have a wonderful adventure.
5. Enjoy
All those beautiful tips can help make the travel easier, but it would be no fun if you don't enjoy each other's company. Don't forget that you are travelling with your significant other and that this trip was made for both of you to relax. You might not be travelling every day of your life, so take the time to savour those moments together.

I must say, the first time I went on a trip with my boyfriend, we ended up arguing all the time. We came back completely exhausted, but learned from it. It made our relation stronger and we understood more about each others' expectations and personalities. Travelling with your loved one can be a challenge, but once you have set your boundaries, he or she can be your best travel companion. Remember that no matter what, you love each others.

Enjoy,
The little traveller's boots
Xox

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